About Us

FINDFRED® is the revolutionary new way for gay men to find their match (18 and over please).

In 2001, FINDFRED® founders Raj and Travis had a "marriage" ceremony in Ohio, even though there is no legal standing in Ohio or the US for gay marriages. They asked that all gifts be a donation to HRC so that one day gay marriage and equal rights would be available for all humans. This was back when the term "civil unions" was emerging and "gay marriage" was a futuristic dream.

Gay marriage is now a reality in many states and in time it will be a federal right. FINDFRED® is leading the way on the relationship front with innovative patent pending Match techniques based on psychology and practicality. FINDFRED® has the best dating profiles in the world (a sentiment echoed by many members). What you put in is what you get out, so we are more than just one picture and a distance away from someone.

The FINDFRED® team (over 100 strong) has a history of being active in the GLBT community, having donated over $1.5 million dollars in the past 20+ years for gay rights, political candidates that are pro-GLBT and gay causes such as the fight against AIDS. You have a choice in where you take your business, so make your money work for you by choosing us.

FINDFRED® has committed 10% of all profits to be donated back into the GLBT community. Please review our Charity page for more information.

FINDFRED® offers an innovative patent pending match feature that is both simple and realistic. Additionally, members can chat, e-mail, browse and search other members. Gay dating has never been this much fun.

FINDFRED® is receiving member and industry accolades for its ground breaking Visual Profile.

FINDFRED® is focused on ease of use for its members and forward-thinking design. With continual software upgrades planned, FINDFRED® is an evolving software platform and web site.

If you want change in how gays are perceived socially, then you have to be that change. Get rid of your hookup site memberships if you want to take dating seriously. You can't expect someone to want to go on a date with you when you have profiles looking for random encounters all over the web. You don't need hundreds of random encounters to find your match. You need one good match. How long it takes to find your match depends on how much you focus on it and invest in creating quality dates.

Basic membership is FREE. You can access all areas and request match scores as a BASIC member.


"I have had a success with Find Fred and have a boyfriend now... Thank you for the wonderful and easy to use app. I would definetly recommend this app to anyone that I know. Again thank you for the awesome service from this app."
– Will

"The Visual Profile was the most fun experience I have ever had with what is normally such a boring thing. This is like the ipod of the m4m world!"
– Mark, Atlanta GA

"I live in Columbus OH and this company has supported anything gay forever! Way to go guys. This site is incredible."
– Ryan, Columbus OH

"Ok so I was skeptical at first and finally joined since I see the ads on everything. This is genius.... I mean there is nothing like it. Even facebook needs to take note cuz this design is awesome."
– Derek, Toronto ON

"I used FindFred and I found someone amazing! FindFred is an amazing website and I wish you the best of luck with it."
Sincerely, Lance

"I found my bf through your website and we just celebrated a happy 1-year since we became boyfriends. Good luck with the future of the website, it's only getting better =)"
– Sammy

"I found my fred! Thank you"
– George W

"I really love the website. I met my current boyfriend Jake on here and we are in love!"
– Justin

"I think FindFred is the best M4M site out on the internet. It is clean, classy, and very well developed. I met my partner here. It's great that people on this site are easy to talk to and have dates with. Best Wishes."
– Scott

"FindFred is a wonderful site and I have now entered into a serious committed relationship because of it!! It took me 9 months which is better than 10 years on hook up sites. Thanks!"
– Dennis

"I have found someone, thanks to your site. I am recommending it to all my single friends. thank you."
– Michael

"Thank you for your services in helping find someone for me."
– Honda Guy

"I've met somebody... Thank you for your help! Love the site... this is the only site that's ever worked for me."
– Matt

"I'm sure you don't get many follow up emails, but I met someone on FindFred several months ago. Things have been going very well. Every time I see your logo I smile. This site is much better than Match!"
– Shaun in NYC

"I actually LOVE your site! I have found my life partner; we had been "courting" each other for over five years and everything finally fell into place when we saw each other on FindFred. When we saw each other on the hook-up oriented sites we figured neither one was ready to commit. When we saw each other on here (FindFred), we connected. Thank you again for your help"
– David

"Hi, I have actually found someone from your site and it's totally awesome. I'm happily in a relationship and would like my testimonial to reach others hoping to find their love."
– Jon

"FindFred Founders, I just want to say thank you for creating such a site. I have been with this guy now for about almost 2 months and we are as happy as can be. Thank to you guys. We met on And we connected instantly. I just want to say thanks. I never would have meet this amazing guy if findfred didn't help me."
– Angel